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HENPECKED CONQUERORS
Dr. John Allan Lavender
Rom. 8:35, 37-39; Mt. 11:29-30
For a man who didn't start to school until he was 40 years old, Charlemagne the Great did alright
for himself. His initial wealth and power came through inheriting the kingdom of Franks from
his legendary grandfather, Charles Martel. But he wisely exploited this rather meager beginning
and extended that kingdom from the Baltic to the Mediterranean and from the Atlantic (except
Spain) to the Slavlands. In so doing, he quite naturally built up something of a reputation as a
fearless warrior who performed super-human feats. He became known as the perfect ruler
dispensing perfect justice and, as a loyal disciple of the Christian faith, in the year 800, was
crowned Holy Roman Emperor of the entire West.
But like all human beings, Charlemagne had his Achilles heel. In a rather colorful biography,
Charles Lamb pokes a gaping hole through the conqueror's otherwise shining armor by showing
him to be a thoroughly henpecked husband. In fact, the inference is that his wife, Fastrada, a
cruel, conniving woman had something to do with his incessant campaigns to distant lands, and
the totally uncharacteristic outbreaks of ruthlessness which sometimes possessed him.
It makes a fascinating picture, doesn't it? Taken from the angle of a profile, one sees the
shadowy outline of a conquering hero. Owner of vast stretches of terrain. Benevolent ruler of
uncounted throngs of the earth's population. But seen from the front, with the shadow torn away,
one glimpses the little lines of frustration and humiliation etched there by the constant harassing
of his conniving wife, and you know that despite his wealth and power, his pomp and
circumstance, Charlemagne the Great -- Emperor of the West, ruler of half the known world --
was a henpecked conqueror.
I wonder if we can bring this historical reference into focus and relate it to our own experience as
Christians. Here are we who, through faith in Christ, have become "more than conquerors". We
have been given victory over death and sin. We have inherited eternal life with all of its
consequent benefits. We have been made children of God and thus, are heirs apparent to all of
the wealth and power of our Father's kingdom.
We have been given the tremendous resources of the Holy Spirit and, through Him, such rich
gifts as love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, meekness and self-control.
We should, indeed, be more than conquerors. We ought to be the happiest of all people and, in
the last analysis, we may be. But let us also admit that when the facade of pretense has been
pulled away, and the shadows of religiosity have been removed by the glaring, white light of
truth, there are also times in the life of each of us when, like Charlemagne the Great, we too are
henpecked conquerors.
In our case, the culprit is not a conniving wife (or tyrannical husband.) Rather, the thin lines of
frustration which mar our Christian countenance are drawn there by the constant harassing of
The complexity of the world in which we live.
The competing loyalties which vie for our allegiance.
The conflicting impulses which war within us.
Look at the first of these harassing influences which henpeck 20th century Christians.
The Complexity of Modern Life
Mechanical, industrial, economic, and social "progress" have all taken their toll on Christians,
just as they have left their mark upon our entire culture.
Speed has become the watch word of the hour. The average suburban business person has
become captive of the 7:31 and the 5:02. They have been so conditioned that if, on their way to
the office on a Monday morning, they miss one opening in the revolving door, they feel they're
behind schedule all week.
Fortunes are made and lost and made again overnight. Great ships which once took months to
construct are now completed in a matter of a few days. I can still remember sharing in the
launching of a 10,000 ton Liberty ship which had been built from the keel up in 96 hours!
This great industrial revolution has contributed to the confusing eruption of population that has
beset our metropolitan areas as hordes of people, many unprepared for urban living, descend
upon cities like Chicago, looking for economic health and security.
We live in an age of prosperity without precedent, but unfortunately it has been accompanied by
self-indulgence without parallel. As a result, the world seems to lack the moral fibre it takes to
get off the treadmill.
All around us bewildered, emotionally distraught men and women scurry helter-skelter amid the
maddening maze of modern life, searching for that nebulous thing called "success".
And even though the wayside is strewed with glittering gadgets and gaudy accruements, the pot
of gold at the end of the rainbow is often found to be full of iron. And, when the balance is
struck, the result of all this struggle hardly seems to be worth the effort.
In fact, professor John Bailey contends that:
"There is in the life of every person today a sense of failure, a feeling that idealism has
collapsed."
And because we as Christians must, of necessity, live in this confused and confusing world, we
cannot avoid the daily harassment of a complex society. The second influence that drives its pin-pricks into 20th century Christians is the factor of
A Multiplicity of Competing Loyalties.
In the 31st chapter of Genesis, there is the story of Jacob's flight from Laban. In it, you will
remember that Rachel, the wife of Jacob, stole the little heathen god that belonged to her father,
hoping it would bring happiness and prosperity to her own household.
It was a case of competing loyalty. For a while, Rachel believed in the one true God of Israel,
then she floundered in her faith, giving way to the prevailing superstitions of her day. As a
result, she was not only guilty of stealing, but of lying. When Laban came looking for the
missing idol, Rachel, who had hid them in her camel saddle, claimed to be sick and unable to
move so they could not search her tent. Two grievous sins...lying and stealing...were committed
because she fell prey to the siren call of a false loyalty.
I think there's a lesson here for us. We, too, are surrounded by a bevy of enterprises, interests
and organizations which compete for our loyalty. The loyalty we owe, first, last and always to
the Christ whose captive we are. For as Paul declares in I Cor 6:20, we have been "bought with a
price" and we belong to the buyer!
We might call these competing attractions "loyalties junior grade," for while they are good,
stimulating, even edifying, they are definitely second class. They are "little god's" 20th century
style. And, when we allow them to take preeminence in our lives, we are just as guilty of
idolatry as Rachel was. And what is more, the results are just the same.
Idolatry always leads to other sins. Perhaps that's why the first commandment is:
"Thou shalt have no other gods before Me."
God knew that when we give our loyalties to the "little gods" of life, we will soon be guilty of
lying to ourselves. We seek to argue ourselves into believing our mis-spent loyalties are not mis-spent at all. We attempt to convince ourselves that our lives are counting just as much for God
and good as if all our concern and ability were going into the cause of Christ through His church.
Yes, and God also knew that if we sell out to second-rate loyalties, we are soon guilty of stealing
too. The stealing, misuse, misappropriation of the precious time, energy and resources which
belong to Him. Now, don't ask me to name these "loyalties junior grade." While I could, I
won't. I learned long ago that none of us wants to hear a sermon on sin. We just want to hear
sermons on sins we don't do!
Like the parishioner who was listening to her pastor preach. When he spoke about gambling,
because she didn't gamble, she let out a hardy "Amen!". When he turned his attention to the
subject of drinking, again, because she didn't drink, she let out another "Amen!". But when he
started to speak about gossiping, she turned to her husband and said: "He's quit preachin' and
gone to meddlin'."
You see, there are some questions we must answer for ourselves and the question of loyalties is
one of them. It isn't a hard question to answer. Exclude the legitimate loyalties of earning a
living, going to school, caring for a home, and then take stock of your life by asking:
"Where do I place my loyalty?"
Do I give it to the work of Christ or to...?
Do I give it to the hour of power on Wednesday night or to...?
Do I give it to the Sunday school or to...?
Do I give it to the great world mission program of my church or to...?
Do you see what I mean? You alone can answer the question for yourself and answer it you
must. For being a Christian does not make you immune to being a henpecked conqueror.
Harassed by a multiplicity of competing loyalties junior grade, you and I must decide whether
our loyalties will go to the "little gods of life" or to our Lord who bought us by the giving of
Himself. And then may I speak of that third harassment which henpecks Christians today.
The Conflicting Impulses Which War Within us
Paul had never met the psychologist William James, but He was well aware of the inner conflicts
of human nature. He had never heard of Freud of Jung. But He was intimately acquainted with
the turbulence of human desire. In the seventh chapter of Romans, He puts it this way: "The
things I want to do I don't do, and the things I do not want to do I do, Oh wretched man that I
am."
The apostle James speaks of the same problem when he says: "What is the cause of the fighting
which goes on among you? Is it not to be found in the passions which struggle for the mastery of
your body?"(James 4:1, 20th Century Version).
Both of these ancient New Testament writers were discussing the factor which modern
psychologists are now claiming to be the source of so many of our personal and social problems:
The untamed impulses of human nature and the "wild horses" within us that sometimes run
amuck.
And this is a problem for all of us. Becoming a Christian does not change the fact that we, like
every other Mother's child, came into this world with a powerful set of urges, instincts, impulses
(or whatever you wish to call them), that are the driving force of life. The things which make us
tick. And the major business of life is learning what to do with ambition, fear, hate, anger, lust,
and oh, so many other "wild horses" within us.
In fact, that's what Christianity is all about. This Christian faith of ours does not stick its head in
the sand, ostrich-like, and say these common harassments in life do not exist. Our Christ was not
so blind as that. He was fully conscious of the warfare within us. He knew as J. Wallace
Hamilton points out in his book Ride the Wild Horses,
"What is true in the realm of plant life is true also in the realm of human life...that is, every weed
is a potential flower and the very qualities which make it a weed can also make it a flower. The
same instincts that made a Judas could also have made a John. Jesus knew that. He knew that
within every sinner is the stuff of which saints are made, and so He said to the people He saw
struggling against the pin-pricks of life, 'Come unto Me all ye that labor and are heavy laden and
I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn of Me...for my yoke is easy and my
burden is light'" (Matt. 11:28-30).
I don't think I ever fully understood the meaning of that verse until this last summer when I heard
a man on the radio refer to a New Hampshire farmer who was driving a pair of oxen. As they
rolled along behind the plodding animals, he turned to his friend and said in his deep New
Hampshire accent: "That yoke sure rests easy on those oxen." As I flicked off the radio, I said to
myself: "That's it. That's what Jesus meant when He said, 'My yoke is easy.' He meant that it
fits and, thus, is easy to bear."
Complexities of Life
It fits our need with respect to the complexities of life. You see, my friend, this yoke was meant
to be worn by two. Christ and you. Our Lord is fully cognizant of the tremendous pressures
which weigh us down and He is anxious to help us lift the load if we will only let Him...if we will
but link our lives in tandem with His and wear His yoke which is "easy".
Competing Loyalties
And what is more, the yoke of Christ fits our situation with regard to the competing loyalties
which vie for our allegiance. The Christian yoke is a good deal like the yoke of Christian
marriage. In fact, Jesus often used the relationship of a husband and wife to illustrate the
spiritual union between Himself and those who call Him Lord.
This matter of loyalty is much like falling in love. If you fall in love with surface things, a pretty
face or form, an attractive bank roll or some superficial physical characteristic, if you go into
marriage because it's "the thing to do", that relationship is headed for a peck of trouble. It is
based upon "junior grade loyalties" and some day a new or more attractive face or form or bank
roll will come along and steal your so-called "love" away.
But if you fall in love with a person, then in time, the surface things take care of themselves.
Like the wife who came to her husband and asked: "Honey, will you love me when my hair is
turning gray?" He said: "Well, darling, I've loved you through three other colors; I guess I can
stand one more!"
You see, if you are loyal to the church because it's the thing to do...or because it's a worthy
"project"...or because you like a particular pastor...or because you think everyone should put a
shoulder to the wheel and help push the only thing that can stop the progress of
Communism...then you are in for a hard time of it. These are second-rate reasons for being part
of the church and shortly, some other "project," or socially acceptable "club," or "worthy cause"
will come along and you will go spinning off to spend your loyalties on your newest second-rate
loyalty.
But if you are in the church because you are in love with a Person, if at the very center of your
loyalty is the Lord Jesus Christ, then it will be "no contest." The "loyalties junior grade" will
chafe and rub, while the yoke of Christ will rest easy upon you.
Conflicting Impulses
And need I say that His yoke fits our needs with regard to the conflicting impulses within us?
Our Lord is so well aware that we are a tragic mixture of sinner and potential saint. But the glory
of Jesus is that He meets people where they are and treats them as if they were where they ought
to be. And wonder of wonders, as we allow Him to place His yoke upon us and thus take
direction of our lives, we discover to our joy that He had lead us wisely through the jungle of
good and evil.
Yes, we are "more than conquerors through Him that loved us," and even though there are times
when we are henpecked by the complexities of life, the competing loyalties around us and the
conflicting impulses within us, if we will but stop and give a listen, we will hear Him say:
"Come unto Me all ye that labor and are heavy laden and I will give you rest. Take My yoke
upon you and learn of Me...for my yoke is easy and my burden is light."
What I have tried to say to you this morning is best summed up in a few lines of happy doggerel
which are not very good poetry, but make very good sense.
"We mutter and sputter,
We fume and we spurt.
We mumble and grumble,
Our feeling get hurt.
We can't understand things,
Our vision grows dim.
When all that we need
Is a moment with Him."